The Experience of Bi-Negativity in Mixed Gender Relationships

Bisexual orientation in the context of long-term relationships comes with a unique set of challenges, especially when that relationship is mixed gender. The cultural belief that bisexual orientation is unstable or temporary paired with the presentation of a partnership that grants heterosexual privilege can be a complex place to exist for bisexual individuals. This experience was examined in semi-structured interviews of 55 bisexual people in a mixed-gender relationship. Participants were an average of 29 years of age and ranged in age from 21 to 48. Reflexive thematic analysis resulted in the identification of three major themes and two subthemes. The major themes were: (1) cultural assumptions of bisexual orientation, (2) bi-negativity/biphobia, and (3) bi-invisibility. These findings highlight the complexity of existing day-to-day as a bisexual person in a mixed-gender relationship. The implications of these findings for individuals, clinicians, and communities and directions for future research are discussed.